From Clueless Guy's Guide to Love and Beyond



First, Don’t be a Butt Head

    How many of us think we are charming, cute, funny, interesting and sophisticated? Trick question: all of us. When we try to relate to women, we do so from that unrealistic bubble we comfortably inhabit. We do believe if we act and say whatever we wish and think, that doing so will totally fascinate a woman.
    If you are able to multitask, try talking and watching at the same time. Particularly watch her body language and facial expressions. If she is folding her arms and looking away, you are probably doing something wrong. If she’s grimacing, frowning, scowling, you are obviously doing something wrong. If she is cringing and searching for the exit, you have totally blown it.
You want her leaning toward you, smiling. If that’s not happening, hit your internal reset button and go off in another direction. Think about it, if her remarks about your belly and her highly graphic praise of her last boyfriend turn you off, then guess what effect your current inappropriate  conversation is having on her.
    Women will let you know what effect you are having on them; it may be more subtle than passionate kisses or running away screaming. Paying attention is a skill that will help you when you meet her and will help you keep her.